My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. His best friend have been married for 3 years without issues.
The wife is my friend. My husband was given One(1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend , the wife to my husband best friend. I was never told about this. Her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.
I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone how she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They throw party and painted the town red.
In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fall from the rocking chair in their sitting room.
She was bleeding, so they rushed her to the hospital, only to discover she was S.S, later took the other one there for test she is A.S. They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone I said I will come with him as I was also very worried for the baby..
The first thing that shocked me, was that the baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids.. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child.
He is the only one to give blood to the baby, as her blood lost a lot of blood. After 2 hours there we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband direct ” Is there something about your friends child you want me to know?’ he said no. I said ok. I slept off.
I noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I told them straight that was it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknowly, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.
They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kick against it, that I will never agree to the plan. I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents, that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is giving back to me.
They are my husband kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. the twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely and needs little one to play with. I know i sound a bit crazy am sorry i can not think strait anymore. this is just too much for me to handle.I need advise what to do next.
What do you think about this issue?
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